There is a seduction technique you can use on first dates such as coffee dates that is very effective. It’s called a Seductive Hypnotic Description or an ‘SHD’. It works well because it bypasses a woman’s conscious filters and causes her to experience the feelings necessary for her to feel a connection that is based on sexual tension.
There are lots of normal words that can be associated with sexuality and this is the foundation that Seductive Hypnotic Descriptions are built upon. ‘Sensitive’, ‘hard’, ’soft’ and ‘wet’, are all average words that are laden with sexuality and innuendo. Seductive Hypnotic Descriptions make use of these words by utilizing them within sentences whilst describing something or telling a story. When an SHD is used to tell a story whilst adopting the correct tone and rhythm, a strong connection that is based in sexuality can be created.
The key to utilizing SHD’s is to cause the woman to ask you a question so you can answer her question with a SHD. The simplest way to cause her to ask you the question you desire is to ask her that question first.
You need to have the woman ask you a question that lends itself to the use of a Seductive Hypnotic Description. If she were to ask you a question such as, “can you describe your first kiss for me…?”…this would be the perfect opportunity for you to use a SHD. The best way to get her to do this is to ask her first. Just ask her a few lead up questions like which school did she go to and can she remember her first boy she had a crush on. From there it’s simple to ask her, “…so do you still remember your first kiss…?”
By just talking about her first kiss with her is a great way to increase your connection with her. Whilst she’s in your company she’ll be experiencing those very same emotions and this is what will cause her to feel attraction towards you. Whether she is open to talking about her first kiss or not the question itself creates an exciting emotion within her. If she answers or not there’s a very high chance of her asking you, “…well why don’t you describe your first kiss for me…?
This is your chance to answer her with your perfectly rehearsed SHD. It would sound like, “…I do because it was a secret kiss…it was raining and everywhere was wet so we hid under this huge tree…I remember being surprised at how soft and warm her lips were even though we were both totally wet…the rain was actually dripping onto our faces from the leaves above as we kissed…her lips were so sensitive and I had to be so gentle with her…I never expected my first kiss to be like that…we snuck back to where we were meant to be both totally wet with a secret that was hard to keep…”
There are plenty of words in the above SHD that are linked with sexuality. Although they are not being used in that context, it’s the innuendo and connotations attached to them that give SHD’s their power. By using these words in sentences that are slightly confusing, you are bypassing her conscious filters and these words are going straight through to her subconscious. This is how the hypnotic factor of the equation functions.
By using a soft seductive tone of voice and maintaining a smooth speaking rhythm the effectiveness of an SHD can be increased. This cannot be obvious whatsoever and has to be done very delicately for it to work. It is enough to simply add a slightly longer pause in between your sentences whilst performing a SHD.
You can’t overdo this method of seduction as it works best in small doses only. Your first date with a woman should be a short 40 minute coffee date. You wouldn’t use any more than two SDH’s in that time period. You’ll definitely have to practice SHD’s by yourself until you come up with a few good ones that you can use naturally. Think of the question that you want her to ask you and then ask her that same question after you’ve laid down the foundations to ask such a question. When she reciprocates the question you’ll have you’re perfectly rehearsed SHD to respond with. SHD’s should only be one of the six flirting methods that you would use on a first date such as a coffee date.
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