Change Your Life In Seven Days – How NLP Works For You
Posted Under: Hypnosis
NLP. Neuro represents the mind and how we think, feel and imagine. Linguistic stands for language, the spoken, written and unwritten. Programming is the technical side of how to influence the mind through language. Many self help gurus such as the author of Change Your Life in Seven Days, Paul McKenna uses NLP programming to influence self talk behaviors.
Using an unsuspecting friend, try this experiment. Making sure you can see them, text them this message.
Scratch off lottery tickets were Your favorite. Who Knows what that is now.
Now make sure you capitalize the words scratch, your and knows. They have to stand out just a little bit. What you’ve done is embedded the command, scratch your nose, to your friend. Knows and nose are phonetically ambiguous, so don’t worry about that. Did your friend scratch their nose?
How people respond to communication is what NLP is all about. NLP practitioners use observations to determine which communications prompt the desired outcome and which ones don’t. New communication patterns are then developed for the patient. Programs such as stop smoking and losing weight utilize principles of NLP to create new responses to external influences.
Many times when you communicate, you are managing to send multiple messages through your body language, eye movement, tone of voice, pace of speech and even your speed of breath. What if, consciously, you could choreograph these paths of communication efficiently? Right now, you probably use a shotgun approach with very few filters and learned negative body communication.
Take, for instance, a desperate sales person trying to close the deal. Because this sales person was communicating his fear, the client won’t probably buy. What about the frustrated husband? He’s trying to talk calmly to his wife, but she sees his clenched jaw and tensed shoulders. She knows they are headed for a fight.
People don’t get what they want when they communicate the wrong things. Most have created destructive or unproductive responses to communication. Do you take things personally when a friend declines an offer? Or, do you assume a request will be declined even before you make an offer?
Fully communicating your intent is what NLP helps out with. Since everyone has their own set of experiences, NLP is not just a cookie cutter solution. It must be tested and revised for each person. But, with the help of NLP, you can start to see the communication patterns that happen between yourself and others. From there, you will be able to study their reactions to your new communication styles. This is valuable feedback on the path toward improvement. Can you imagine what it would be like to skillfully communicate with your clients, parents, partner or the kids?
Grab the free Easy NLP and Hypnosis Workbook at Roxanne’s site http://www.changeyourlifeinsevendays.com. Your longest journey begins right where you stand. Start that change today.
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