I want to you to imagine gallivanting with a woman.

When I asked you to do this, certain images popped into your head.

I don’t know what beach you imagined and I don’t know what color hair the girls had. But I’m willing to bet all of the women you imagined were physically attractive.

Here’s the deal: physical beauty is important to guys.

But here’s a cold hard truth you probably don’t want to hear: Physical appearance is important to women as well. When girls see a muscled man with a big chest and bulging biceps, they get hot and bothered.

Girls might tell you that they don’t care about this stuff, but they do. It is similar to when women ask men if large breasts are important to them. Most men say, “No. I don’t really care about that stuff.” But we all know that large breasts are nice. Same goes for a muscled physique.

If you’re out of shape, don’t despair. It’s easy to get in shape.

The first step is to get a gym membership. You can get one for as little as $20 a month. That’s less than a third of what you’ll pay to take a girl out on the town.

Once you’re in shape, women will get so turned on by your body that you may not need to take them out and spend money on them. So by getting gym membership, you’ll probably save money.

You don’t need to work out like crazy. Instead, work out your entire body three times a week. For legs, do three sets of squats for 10 reps. Use the bench press for chest, shoulders, and triceps. I like to do 10 sets of 10 reps for each workout. For lats and biceps, do 6 sets of 12 reps on a Hammer Strength lat machine.

Within six weeks you’ll see a measurable difference in your physique.

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Mistake # 1: Showing Too Much Interest

When the collective “nice guy” likes a woman, he incessantly ogles at her, pays her compliments, and fondles her.

As a result, she thinks he’s needy and loses interest.

Mistake # 2: Constantly Pushing Women Away

This is the bane of the consummate bad boy. Around women, he oozes languor. Instead of complimenting them, he makes fun of them. The physical affection he gives them teeters on zero.

A Middle-ground: Two Steps Forward & One Step Back

The master Lothario always takes two steps forward and one step back.

Let’s break this down by starting with compliments and insults. A Lothario would start off with a small compliment – maybe about her clothes. Then he’d make a more brazen compliment about her physical beauty. He might say, “You’re lips are very full and sexy.” Then he’d take a step back by maybe adding, “But you wear too much makeup.”

To sum this up, the first two compliments are steps forward. The slight insult is a step backwards.

Now let’s analyze how the Lothario applies the principle “two steps forward and one step back” to the amount of attention he gives women. If a woman says something interesting, he might say, “That’s really interesting.” Then he may even start asking her questions about it. Next, to throw her for a loop, he might look disinterested and ho-hum.

Now the part you’ve been waiting for: How to apply the principle “two steps forward and one step back” to getting physical with women.

A master seducer starts by placing his hand on her arm. Then he rubs it a little. Next, before she can move his hand away, he removes it.

Then he may start rubbing his hand through her hair. After a good minute, he may grab a nice chunk of hair at the base of her scalp and gently pull (women find this very arousing). Then he will remove his hand.

Next, he’ll resume rubbing her hair. Then he’ll look into her eyes and softly brush his lips against hers. When she tries to kiss him, he’ll pull back.

This turns women on – big time. Try it yourself and see how well this works.

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So let’s get on with how to meet women at the dog park. Here’s what to do: spot a woman and her dog. Next, move in her vicinity. Your dogs will inevitably start playing together. Then say to her, “Our dogs make a cute couple and should get married.”

She’ll laugh.

If they both happen to be boys or girls say, “They make the cutest couple. Is gay marriage legal in our state?”

She’ll be rolling on the floor laughing.

Then suggest that you guys should exchange number so your dog can go out on a date together.

She’ll laugh but give you her number.

Then say, “These crazy pups are gonna get into trouble without parental supervision. So we’ll have to chaperon them.”

She’ll laugh and you’ll have a date set up with an attractive girl. On your doggy date, don’t go back to the dog park. Take her hiking or maybe to the beach.

These type of dates are always more fun than doing the old and clichd dinner and a movie. But most importantly, it won’t break your bank account.

Important note: I’ve seen this advice work for short guys. I’ve seen this advice work for overweight guys. I’ve seen this advice work for guys with no money.

My point: If you heed the advice I’ve given you, you will get results. I’ve left you with no excuses. Stop wasting any more time. Go out and attract the woman of your dreams.

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Why is this?

There are many reasons.

One, women at bars and clubs are superficial to the hilt. In this context, they are looking for their shining example of genetic perfection – think Brad Pitt’s mug and biceps big enough to make Arnold Schwarzenegger blush. If you aren’t “conventionally” attractive, it’s a hard crowd to please. Many short, portly, poor or old guys find themselves ostracized from all the fun.

Two, women are focused on the outside appearance, not the inside. I knew a man who held a Ph.D in Astrophysics, spent four years helping the needy in Africa, and trekked all over Patagonia. You would think this was enough to pique a woman’s interest. However, because of his large nose and small stature, women at bars wouldn’t give him a chance to reveal his accomplishments – a sad but true story.

Three, many of the women in bars and clubs are drunks. They don’t have a job, they don’t read, and they don’t know about the world. All they care about is getting drunk. I don’t know about you but this doesn’t seem like an ideal place for meeting a great girl unless you’re an alcoholic looking for someone to share a bottle with.

Four, bars and clubs are noisy. If aren’t blessed with model good looks, the only way to attract women is through your words. As Voltaire said, “Give me ten minutes to talk away my ugly face and I’ll bed the Queen of France.” It’s kinda hard to talk away your ugly face when you have to compete against deafeningly loud music.

So if bars and clubs are out of the question, where’s a good place to meet women?

Believe it or not, Laundromats. While doing laundry, most women are bored out of their mind. When a charming stranger sparks a conversation with them, it brightens up their day. You’ll have a chance to parade your most attractive personality traits.

More importantly, you aren’t competing against dozens of other men. Most likely, you’ll be the only guy talking to her.

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Is it clean? If not you’re in big trouble. Before you find yourself in this predicament, hire a maid.

Next, buy a bunch of sconces, candelabras, and red candles.

Why would I want to decorate my place the way a woman would decorate hers? Aren’t candles feminine?

Yes. But women love candles. When women fantasize about being seduced, it always involves candles and dimmed lights. This sets the mood.

Load up your iPod with lots of sexy songs. I suggest downloading some Enigma, Serge Gainsborge (especially the song Je T-Aime), Eric Carmen (Hungry Eyes), and Teddy Pendergrass (Turn Off The Lights). Once again, this is just more stuff that sets the mood.

Next, get some incense.

Get a bunch of soft pillows to cover your couch and bed. Women love cuddling with soft pillows. If you can get a woman in the mood for cuddling, it’s game over.

Load up on lots of massage oil. Women love massages and massage is a great way to get their clothes off and put them in the mood for sexy time.

Buy a bunch of wine and cheeses. The alcohol will lower her inhibitions and put her in the mood for intimate relations.

Do you see what I’m doing here?

I’m involving all five senses: Visual, auditory, kinesthetic, olfactory, and gustatory. If you stimulate a woman’s five senses, it eliminates the possibility of her rejecting your sexual overtures.

However, if you do not know how to flirt, you’re doomed to a life without quality women. If you’re ready to get this area of your life together, check out some romantic comedies and pay attention to how the men flirt with the women. Once you get the hang of it, go out and practice in the field – bars, nightclubs, bookstore, coffee shops, and the DMV. This is the only way to get good with women.

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If you belong to a gym this can be a great place to meet and attract women. When women are at the gym they have a lot of endorphins running through their body. This means that they’ll be more receptive to meeting guys. Plus, women rarely get approached in the gym.

So how do you do it? What’s the best pick up line?

Don’t over think it, my friend.

Just get eye contact and use a simple hi. And don’t forget to smile. She’ll say hi and smile back – it’s the polite thing to do.

Then make a comment about some something happening in the world. Stay away from topics that reveal your political affiliation. It’s too early yet. Pop culture or media is always good. She may respond. She may not. No worries. No matter what, move on.

You’re someone she knows now. The next time she sees you, she’ll smile and probably say hi. This time have a longer conversation. Make her laugh. Maybe tease her a little. Then move on.

The third time you see her, ask her out for coffee. I think you’ll be pleasantly surprised with the results.

One more thing: Don’t limit yourself to one girl. Instead, talk to every female in your gym. Do exactly as I explained above. Do this for a month and you’ll have more dates than you know what to do with.

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Let’s start by discussing why most men think bookstores are a terrible place for meeting women. The main reason most men think bookstores are terrible for meeting women is that there aren’t many beautiful women to meet.

But don’t let that discourage you. It is bar-none one of the best places to meet women. Here’s why: Women often go to bookstores alone. Moreover, they often go there when they’re new in town and don’t know anyone. This makes it ripe to meet and attract them. Furthermore, you’ll find women just getting out of relationships. Here’s what to do: Find a good book and plant your butt in the relationship, new age, or sexuality section of the bookstore. Don’t look for girls. Just read your book. Attractive women flock these sections.

If you see a woman in the sexuality section she’s there because she’s looking for better sex – jackpot. The fact that she’s reading books on sexuality means that she’s in an aroused state. Maybe say to her, “Shaping up on your techniques?” and smirk. She’ll laugh and then explain to you why she’s there. Congratulations, you’ve started a conversation with a girl in the bookstore.

If you’re trying to meet girls in the new age section, it might help to know a thing or two about astrology. Try to get the title of the book she’s reading. Make a comment. Then ask her, “What’s your sign.”

Whatever she says tell her, “You and I would probably have great sex but we wouldn’t get along because our signs aren’t compatible.”

Most likely, she’ll qualify, “No no… we would get along. Our signs are compatible.” Congratulations. You just flirted with a girl in a bookstore.

Keep it up and sooner than later you’ll have more dates then you know what to do with.

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Well, how tall? Really tall. Take a look at most online dating sites. Most women will say in their profile that they want a man six feet or above. Sobering news.

To add insult to injury, many of these women are quite short. But good news is lurking around the corner. Have you ever noticed that there are plenty of short guys who are dating or married to attractive girls?

If women care so much about height, how did these guys get these girls? Good question. I thought you’d never ask.

Women do care about height. But they also care about lots of other qualities. Women look at the whole package – the guy’s face, his sense of humor, level of fitness, vocation, hobbies, way he treats the people around him, and so on.

Even if you’re painfully short, if you can develop these other qualities, you’ll get the women of your dreams.

Work on your seduction skills and you’ll spark attraction in any woman you choose – even if you’re only four feet tall.

If you need a little extra bit of evidence that short guys get girls, look at Tom Cruise. Without his elevator shoes he’s barely 5’6″. But he’s been with many beautiful women – from Nicole Kidman to Penelope Cruise to Katie Holmes. Or take Michael J Fox. He’s only 5’4″ and to make matters worse, he has Parkinson’s. However, he’s got a loving – and very beautiful – wife by his side.

So next time you think you cannot get girls because of your height, just think of Michel J Fox or Tom Cruise and remember that these guys don’t let their height get in the way of living their life to the hilt.

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This is the reason why the persuasion techniques of dating science are important. Males and females have so much tension between themselves that it does not feel safe to show our feelings. It does not feel safe to just walk up to someone and start a conversation with them. This is why we are the ones who want to be approached. We want other people to remove our insecurities by approaching us. The problem is that this is not always the way things work in the art of persuasion. At every nightclub, at every party, and at every social gathering there are very attractive people who have silent crushes on people who are either right next to them or close by. Yet, because they never say anything, nothing ever happens.

The power of persuasion has several dating techniques within it that are directly related to covert persuasion. When it comes to dating, one of the greatest challenges one might face is meeting someone in a way that feels comfortable. Once you have obtained the skill to meet anyone, anyplace, and anytime, you will then be able to obtain the skill to transition people into different sorts of relationships that you may want with them.

The art of seduction spends a great deal of time talking about various ‘openers’ and how you can use these openers to meet people of the opposite sex. In a way, the opener that you choose to use to meet someone is the first impression that you give this person. Once you get good at using different sorts of openers for different situations, starting conversations with members of the opposite sex will become second nature for you.

Even though openers are extremely imperative in the dating game, you shouldn’t rely too heavily upon them. This means that even though openers are extremely significant, that you must not rely too heavily on the opening phase of the seduction process because the time will soon come when you must begin to transition the social interaction into some type of dating context.

Lots of men learn all of the different styles of openers, they memorize them word for word, but after the opener does its job and they get their foot in the door, they get stuck and have entirely no idea of where to go from there. For this reason, the dating advice of disguised hypnosis must be mastered as both a science and an art. You must not merely study the persuasion strategies in and of themselves, because you also must learn how to use the dating principles of disguised hypnosis in harmony so that all of its persuasive techniques flow together into one powerful force.

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Yet, as men, we have to use suggestion in different ways. Although men can be suggestive through their dress and physical appearance, this as a rule is not enough because women are not the visual creatures that men are. Women are auditory creatures, so it is the power of words that seduces them most effectively. You will be able to hypnotize any woman you want by using the power of words, because your words are what alter a woman’s emotions.

One of the most important events in my life that exposed to me the power of words over women was when I went to a swanky nightclub with several friends one night. I saw a very good looking well dressed man sitting alone, and it was evident that he was waiting for women to approach him because he knew he was good looking. He sat and continued to wait for a woman to throw herself at him, and it never occurred. Meanwhile, their was another man at the nightclub who was not very good looking and as well dressed as the other man. Anyhow, the not so good looking man was continually approaching women, establishing physical contact with them, having conversations with the women, and getting some of their phone numbers.

The funny thing was that the good looking guy was watching the success that the not so good looking guy was having with women, and it was obvious that he despised it. He was probably wondering why the women were hanging out with a guy who wasn’t as tall, good looking, or well dressed as he was. The man who was good looking had no idea that words were the hypnosis techniques necessary to hypnotize women, not good looks. Good looks can benefit of course, but in and of themselves, good looks are not worth very much to a man in the art of seduction. We can all learn a great lesson from this story so that we can begin to build the linguistic tools that are necessary to successfully attract women.

Another imperative piece of information you need to know about seducing women through language is that this does not mean you should give women too many compliments When you give women too many compliments, this is like wearing to much perfume, it is better not to use any of them at all than using to much of them. It is good to use some compliments as you are seducing women in order to make them feel good around you, but the compliments you give them should be given hypnotically.

Next, you need to be taught mind control hypnosis techniques that will enable you to hypnotize females in order to get girls to obey you.

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